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Nurturing Children’s Mental Wellbeing Throughout the Summer Break

  • Writer: Mandy Sawilchik, LCPC, RPT & SEP
    Mandy Sawilchik, LCPC, RPT & SEP
  • 2 days ago
  • 4 min read

Summer break is a time many kids look forward to. No early alarms, no homework, and plenty of time to play outside. But for some children, the long break from school can bring challenges to their mental health. Without the usual structure and social connections, kids might feel lonely, anxious, or bored. I want to share some ways to help children stay emotionally healthy during the summer months when school is out.



Eye-level view of a child playing outside in a sunny park
Eye-level view of a child playing outside in a sunny park

Photo: A child enjoying outdoor play during summer



Why Summer Can Be Tough for Kids’ Mental Health


School provides more than just lessons. It offers routine, social time, and a sense of purpose. When school ends, kids lose that daily rhythm. Some may miss their friends or feel isolated. Others might struggle with unstructured time, leading to restlessness or mood swings.


Also, summer can bring changes in family schedules. Parents might work more or less, and kids may spend more time at home or in new environments. These shifts can cause stress or uncertainty.


Recognizing these challenges is the first step to supporting children’s mental health during summer. It’s important to create a balance of fun, connection, and calm.



Creating a Summer Routine That Supports Mental Health


Kids thrive on routine. Even in summer, having a simple daily plan helps them feel safe and grounded. This doesn’t mean strict schedules but a flexible rhythm that includes:


  • Regular wake-up and bedtimes to keep sleep patterns steady.


  • Time for physical activity like biking, swimming, walking or just being outside in nature.


  • Quiet moments for reading, drawing, or mindfulness.


  • Social time with family, friends, or community groups.


    For example, setting a morning routine with breakfast, a walk, and some creative play can start the day positively. Afternoons might include outdoor games or a visit to a local library or park.


Encouraging Outdoor Activities and Nature Time


Spending time outside is a natural mood booster. Sunlight helps the body produce vitamin D, which supports brain health. Fresh air and movement reduce stress and improve sleep.


Simple activities like gardening, hiking, or playing catch can make a big difference. Even a short daily walk around the neighborhood can lift spirits.


If you’re looking for ways to keep kids active and engaged, consider programs like summer camps or community sports leagues. These offer social connection and physical exercise in a supportive setting. Check in with your local parks and rec department to find out about free or low cost nature activities in the area.


Using Creative and Therapeutic Tools to Support Emotional Health


Sometimes kids need extra help to express their feelings or manage stress. Creative tools like art, music, or play therapy can be very effective.


One helpful resource is the Mindful Kids Journal. This journal guides children through simple mindfulness exercises and emotional check-ins. It encourages kids to notice their feelings and practice calm breathing. You can find more about it here.


Another great option is the Calm Kids App, which offers guided meditations and relaxation stories designed for children. It helps them build skills to handle anxiety and improve focus. Learn more at Calm Kids.


These tools are gentle ways to support mental health without pressure. They can be used at home or on the go.



Close-up view of a child drawing with colored pencils
Close-up view of a child drawing with colored pencils

Photo: A child engaged in creative drawing activity



Keeping Social Connections Strong


Social interaction is key to emotional well-being. When school is out, kids may miss their friends. Finding ways to keep those connections alive helps reduce feelings of loneliness.


Organize small playdates, family gatherings, or group activities like library story times or community events. Even virtual meetups can be helpful if in-person isn’t possible.


Encourage kids to share their thoughts and feelings about summer changes. Open conversations build trust and help them feel understood.


When my kids were small, a few moms would get together and create a summer program where each day all the kids would go to one home and have a morning "theme" day one day a week so each mom would have four mornings to get chores and projects done and then host all the kids (it was about 12 kids) one morning. It kept the kids social, engaged and having fun, and gave us mom a few mornings to get some work done.


Supporting Mental Health Through Professional Help When Needed


Sometimes, despite best efforts, kids may struggle with anxiety, sadness, or behavioral changes. It’s okay to seek professional support.


Creating Pathways Counseling, PLLC offers specialized therapy for children and adolescents in Palos Heights, IL, and the south suburbs of Chicago. Our approach goes beyond traditional talk therapy, using creative and holistic methods to help kids heal and grow. You can explore our services here.


Early support can prevent small issues from becoming bigger problems. If you notice persistent mood changes, withdrawal, or difficulty coping, reaching out to a counselor can make a positive difference.


Tips for Parents and Caregivers to Support Kids’ Mental Health


Parents and caregivers play a vital role in children’s emotional health. Here are some practical tips:


  • Listen actively without judgment when kids share their feelings.


  • Model healthy habits like regular sleep, balanced screen time, and stress management.


  • Encourage independence by letting kids make choices about their summer activities.


  • Stay involved in their daily lives and notice changes in mood or behavior.


  • Create a calm home environment with predictable routines and quiet spaces.



Remember, your calm presence helps children feel safe and supported.



High angle view of a family walking together in a park
When we are regulated, our child can regulate too.

Photo: Parent and child co-regulating and connected



Final Thoughts on Supporting Kids’ Mental Health in Summer


Summer break offers a chance for rest and fun, but it can also bring challenges for children’s mental health. By creating routines, encouraging outdoor play, supporting social connections, and using helpful tools like the Mindful Kids Journal or Calm Kids App, we can help kids stay emotionally balanced.


If you notice signs of distress, don’t hesitate to seek professional support. Services like Creating Pathways Counseling, PLLC provide caring, creative therapy options tailored to children’s needs.


Taking small, consistent steps to support mental health during summer sets the stage for a happier, healthier school year ahead. Let’s help kids enjoy their break while feeling safe, connected, and understood.

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